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This month marks two years after my stroke!
There have been a lot of struggles and a lot of challenges.
First of all because of what most people perceive as a rapid recovery and I was looking way too good! Here’s what I mean a stroke is a life altering event in many ways just because looking pretty good physically doesn’t mean I’m back hundred percent. There are things I struggle with daily. A lot of people say when they see me Sim you are looking good you must be back to normal.
The real truth is I’m back to normal but it is a “New Normal”.
When I had my stroke MY GET UP AND GO GOT UP AND WENT!
This means when I plan my day and my week I have to look at the events I’m going to that day and week, plan the rest of the day and week around it. Here’s what I mean if I have a business networking event in the morning it means I will not be going out after about 6 o’clock in the evening. Side effects of that would be about 2 to 3 day recovery.
And on the other hand if I am going out in the evening I try and take my morning at a more measured pace with some naps.
I’m getting pretty good at strategizing and juggling my schedule so I have some energy left.
I had the great opportunity to participate in the Richmond Centre for Disabilities event Invisible Illness Awareness Forum as a part of the panel discussion.
It was interesting to see all those from various walks of life who if you would walk up to you would consider “normal” with each having their struggles and each of them going through life trying to positively change things around them.
Most of their struggles unless you are really close to them you wouldn’t see and even those close to a person like that might not see all of them.
So remember that’s why they call them Invisible Illnesses.
Don’t just judge somebody from the outside until you get really get to know them.
One of my struggles this year has been getting overwhelmed with too many things.
First of all I’ve been trying to get my business back up and running then there’s my blog. My original goal for the blog was two a month it’s been quite a while since I’ve written a post. So my goal for this year is at least one post a month if you hear from me twice a month considerer it a bonus!
My hope in writing this blog was to be an encouragement to people that have had strokes that there is hope!
Also for families of those that have had strokes to see what life is like on the other side of the glasses looking out.
Along the way, I discovered that 80% of strokes are preventable!
With this in mind I’ve written an e-book that talks about things you should do before you have a stroke!
It’s an easy read about six pages but there are some very important resources and action steps!
Sign up for your free copy today!
Just remember be grateful for every day you have been given!
Kevin Pentland says
Thanks for your insights on this important manner.
Jennifer Francis says
I am taking my car today for it’s annual MOT ( required in the UK for any no longer’ new ‘car in order to fulfill the legal requirements for road-worthiness).
The engineer in the workshop where i am going and who will test my this morning vehicle had a stroke some time ago ( I am not sure when exactly nor have precise details of the diagnosis etc.,) He is very down and says he has lost complete interest in many of the former things he used to love passionately.
He does , he says ,walk a few miles every day which “seems to help ,as ‘mindless’ ” ( i quote him verbatim) but no longer wants to do ‘anything’ .
It has been seeing him in this- what I can only call ‘very flat’ state that has prompted me to do a little research and so I was wondering if your E book could help.
Sincerely yours,
Jennifer
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Simeon says
Hi Jennifer
Sorry for taking so long to reply I missed the notification on this. My e-book is generally about the things that you need to do before you have a stroke!
Change of a person’s personality can change after a stroke. Here is a link to a recent podcast I was interviewed on http://hpk.podbean.com/e/surviving-a-stroke/
I also talk about this in the post learning new dance steps. He you will probably have a stroke society in the UK they should have resources that he can access.
if you want I’m more than happy to help encourage anybody I can. I can be reached at Simeon@aluckystroke.com If I can be of any further help please don’t hesitate to reach out.
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